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	<description>Pat Cunningham offers an unabashedly liberal perspective on national politics. A note of caution: The language gets a litttle salty on some of the sites to which this blog links. So, don't say you weren't warned. By the way, this blog's name is inspired by the Will Rogers quote, "All politics is applesauce."</description>
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		<title>By: echo4charlie</title>
		<link>http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/2008/07/15/are-gay-adoptions-unhealthy-for-the-kids/#comment-4105</link>
		<author>echo4charlie</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 14:48:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Although unnatural, I don't disagree that that is a better environment than some households in which the parents are irresponsible.  But, as said earlier, if our government calls it legal, then, it is legal in our country.  

Please read back to my mentioned example of my neighbors.  There is no way they/she should have had kids.  I have watched them for many years, and have no quams about saying that her upbringing of those kids (their father left, moved back in with his mother, and has lived ever since, and she has since re-married twice, as well-not to mention the drug and alcohol abuse by all parents/step parents) is directly responsible for their current criminal condition and incontinent thought processes.  They act in stupidity, because that is how they were raised.  So, that is a natural process of thought for them.  I'm not saying that they are stupid (although their mother routinely ignored their truancy, until they both dropped out of school), but, they certainly don't act as anything short of abused animals.  And, the daughter may one day have a child, either in, or out of, wedlock.  If she doesn't face her own upbringing, and do something to put her past behind her, and decide again how she was raised, another child will endure the same upbringing.

I don't disagree with your statement.  There are some people who should never have had children, and there are people (and if man's law includes homosexual unions as legal, then, this includes them) single people and couples who desperately want children, and understand the commitment of raising a loved, healthy, happy, productive child.

We don't have to agree with the lifestyle, though.  And I do think that there is some adverse effect for the child, such as ridicule, being subject to the rejection that their homosexual parents may face in public, hate crime (as an innocent bystander), etc.

That has to have some effect, I just don't think we're at a point where we are able to pinpoint the negatives, being that this "trend" is so new.

Our lifestyle in America, isn't so far from the Sodom(s), Gomorrah(s), or Babylon(s) of world history.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Although unnatural, I don&#8217;t disagree that that is a better environment than some households in which the parents are irresponsible.  But, as said earlier, if our government calls it legal, then, it is legal in our country.  </p>
<p>Please read back to my mentioned example of my neighbors.  There is no way they/she should have had kids.  I have watched them for many years, and have no quams about saying that her upbringing of those kids (their father left, moved back in with his mother, and has lived ever since, and she has since re-married twice, as well-not to mention the drug and alcohol abuse by all parents/step parents) is directly responsible for their current criminal condition and incontinent thought processes.  They act in stupidity, because that is how they were raised.  So, that is a natural process of thought for them.  I&#8217;m not saying that they are stupid (although their mother routinely ignored their truancy, until they both dropped out of school), but, they certainly don&#8217;t act as anything short of abused animals.  And, the daughter may one day have a child, either in, or out of, wedlock.  If she doesn&#8217;t face her own upbringing, and do something to put her past behind her, and decide again how she was raised, another child will endure the same upbringing.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t disagree with your statement.  There are some people who should never have had children, and there are people (and if man&#8217;s law includes homosexual unions as legal, then, this includes them) single people and couples who desperately want children, and understand the commitment of raising a loved, healthy, happy, productive child.</p>
<p>We don&#8217;t have to agree with the lifestyle, though.  And I do think that there is some adverse effect for the child, such as ridicule, being subject to the rejection that their homosexual parents may face in public, hate crime (as an innocent bystander), etc.</p>
<p>That has to have some effect, I just don&#8217;t think we&#8217;re at a point where we are able to pinpoint the negatives, being that this &#8220;trend&#8221; is so new.</p>
<p>Our lifestyle in America, isn&#8217;t so far from the Sodom(s), Gomorrah(s), or Babylon(s) of world history.</p>
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		<title>By: Craig Knauss</title>
		<link>http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/2008/07/15/are-gay-adoptions-unhealthy-for-the-kids/#comment-4104</link>
		<author>Craig Knauss</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 13:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Considering the fact that brain-dead, inbred rednecks and other riff-raff is allowed to adopt, what's wrong with a responsible gay couple?  I know a few gays, and they give their children (from previous marriages) as much love and attention as any straight couple.  And sometimes more.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Considering the fact that brain-dead, inbred rednecks and other riff-raff is allowed to adopt, what&#8217;s wrong with a responsible gay couple?  I know a few gays, and they give their children (from previous marriages) as much love and attention as any straight couple.  And sometimes more.</p>
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		<title>By: Swede</title>
		<link>http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/2008/07/15/are-gay-adoptions-unhealthy-for-the-kids/#comment-4101</link>
		<author>Swede</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 13:04:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/2008/07/15/are-gay-adoptions-unhealthy-for-the-kids/#comment-4101</guid>
		<description>And gowader.  He's pretty much on-spot as well.  The youth, today, exhibit what has become to be called "Me First" behavior, and I've heard today's twenty-somethings and under as referred to as the "Me First" generation.  I can see his point with respect to selfish behavior, as well.

I'm not saying homosexuality is selfish, but, as a whole, they aren't reputed as a huge "giving" community, either.

It just depends on the people and the parenting.  if man’s law accepts it, then we have to accept it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And gowader.  He&#8217;s pretty much on-spot as well.  The youth, today, exhibit what has become to be called &#8220;Me First&#8221; behavior, and I&#8217;ve heard today&#8217;s twenty-somethings and under as referred to as the &#8220;Me First&#8221; generation.  I can see his point with respect to selfish behavior, as well.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not saying homosexuality is selfish, but, as a whole, they aren&#8217;t reputed as a huge &#8220;giving&#8221; community, either.</p>
<p>It just depends on the people and the parenting.  if man’s law accepts it, then we have to accept it.</p>
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		<title>By: Swede</title>
		<link>http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/2008/07/15/are-gay-adoptions-unhealthy-for-the-kids/#comment-4100</link>
		<author>Swede</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 12:22:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/2008/07/15/are-gay-adoptions-unhealthy-for-the-kids/#comment-4100</guid>
		<description>I think Echo hit it on the spot.  

The ten commandments still stand, so, why would God's view on homosexuality change?

The New Testament Law pertains to Sin, (formerly required sacrifice), and atonement.  It doesn't erase God's view of sin, and change sinful behavior into acceptible behavior (although we all sin and fall short).  Any sin aside from blasphemy is forgiveable, and forgiven by God.  That includes homosexual behavior.

If man's law accepts it, then we have to accept it.  Most churches, outside of the Unitarian Church, frown upon that lifestyle, though.

You're a smart man, Pat, and I respect you, but I think that you're arguing out of your knowledge base.  But, I encourage you to keep reading your bible.  That's the best reading any of us can do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think Echo hit it on the spot.  </p>
<p>The ten commandments still stand, so, why would God&#8217;s view on homosexuality change?</p>
<p>The New Testament Law pertains to Sin, (formerly required sacrifice), and atonement.  It doesn&#8217;t erase God&#8217;s view of sin, and change sinful behavior into acceptible behavior (although we all sin and fall short).  Any sin aside from blasphemy is forgiveable, and forgiven by God.  That includes homosexual behavior.</p>
<p>If man&#8217;s law accepts it, then we have to accept it.  Most churches, outside of the Unitarian Church, frown upon that lifestyle, though.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re a smart man, Pat, and I respect you, but I think that you&#8217;re arguing out of your knowledge base.  But, I encourage you to keep reading your bible.  That&#8217;s the best reading any of us can do.</p>
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		<title>By: Pat Cunningham</title>
		<link>http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/2008/07/15/are-gay-adoptions-unhealthy-for-the-kids/#comment-4092</link>
		<author>Pat Cunningham</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 23:06:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wade: With you around, I bet your family reunions are a lot of laughs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wade: With you around, I bet your family reunions are a lot of laughs.</p>
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		<title>By: gowader</title>
		<link>http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/2008/07/15/are-gay-adoptions-unhealthy-for-the-kids/#comment-4089</link>
		<author>gowader</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 22:48:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/2008/07/15/are-gay-adoptions-unhealthy-for-the-kids/#comment-4089</guid>
		<description>Pat will never grasp the teachings of Christ. Trust me, he is pretty thick in his religious state of mind. Jesus very much spoke about homosexuality and every other sin known to mankind. Jesus made it very clear that all sin was wrong. So to all the pro-gay people who think they are not hurting anyone, think again. I have a sister who is in an alternative lifestyle, and who has adopted a baby from Chile. She is living a fantasy, by thinking they are a normal family.  I feel sorry for the boy because he will not know what it is like to have a mom and a dad. Two mommies will never produce anything but a selfish and self centered lifestyle that he will eventually copy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pat will never grasp the teachings of Christ. Trust me, he is pretty thick in his religious state of mind. Jesus very much spoke about homosexuality and every other sin known to mankind. Jesus made it very clear that all sin was wrong. So to all the pro-gay people who think they are not hurting anyone, think again. I have a sister who is in an alternative lifestyle, and who has adopted a baby from Chile. She is living a fantasy, by thinking they are a normal family.  I feel sorry for the boy because he will not know what it is like to have a mom and a dad. Two mommies will never produce anything but a selfish and self centered lifestyle that he will eventually copy.</p>
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		<title>By: echo4charlie</title>
		<link>http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/2008/07/15/are-gay-adoptions-unhealthy-for-the-kids/#comment-4087</link>
		<author>echo4charlie</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 21:40:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/2008/07/15/are-gay-adoptions-unhealthy-for-the-kids/#comment-4087</guid>
		<description>Pat:

You speak as if the God of the Old Testament is a different God than in the New Testament.  They are one and the same and homosexuality is condemned in both Testaments as a great sin against a Holy God.

The New Testament Law speaks about the physical act of sacrifice, which at times could be nearly insurmountable, in pursuit of forgiveness and salvation were foregone when Jesus made the ultimate sacrifice, and exchanged his life for our salvation.  That, by no means, circumvents the ten commandments, or invalidates God's law.
 
The meaning of God creation of humans is quite clear, and needs little elaboration. God created two humans of different sexes so that they could reproduce. He ordered them to have children and start to populate the world with more humans. There is obviously a limit to the number of children that Eve could give birth to. One might safely assume that God's instruction to Adam and Eve were also binding to their children, grandchildren, even down to the present generation.

The only family/marriage structure that allows procreation by the spouses is made up of one or more men and one or more women. Two women cannot procreate together. Two men cannot have children. God's intent therefore is for marriage to be limited to opposite sexes. God did not initially create one man and multiple women, or one women and multiple men, or multiple men and women. God's intent therefore was to have opposite-sex pairs of humans marry and create families consisting of one man and one woman. 

I disagree, but if the law says it is ok, then it is ok.  Like many have said in this column, there are fit loving and wanting parents, both heterosexual and homosexual.  Even in my disagreement with the lifestyle choice, I'd rather see a child given a loving supportive home by gay parents than an unfit home by heterosexual parents.  There are a lot of unfit and uncaring parents out there who treat their kids as a burden and bother.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pat:</p>
<p>You speak as if the God of the Old Testament is a different God than in the New Testament.  They are one and the same and homosexuality is condemned in both Testaments as a great sin against a Holy God.</p>
<p>The New Testament Law speaks about the physical act of sacrifice, which at times could be nearly insurmountable, in pursuit of forgiveness and salvation were foregone when Jesus made the ultimate sacrifice, and exchanged his life for our salvation.  That, by no means, circumvents the ten commandments, or invalidates God&#8217;s law.</p>
<p>The meaning of God creation of humans is quite clear, and needs little elaboration. God created two humans of different sexes so that they could reproduce. He ordered them to have children and start to populate the world with more humans. There is obviously a limit to the number of children that Eve could give birth to. One might safely assume that God&#8217;s instruction to Adam and Eve were also binding to their children, grandchildren, even down to the present generation.</p>
<p>The only family/marriage structure that allows procreation by the spouses is made up of one or more men and one or more women. Two women cannot procreate together. Two men cannot have children. God&#8217;s intent therefore is for marriage to be limited to opposite sexes. God did not initially create one man and multiple women, or one women and multiple men, or multiple men and women. God&#8217;s intent therefore was to have opposite-sex pairs of humans marry and create families consisting of one man and one woman. </p>
<p>I disagree, but if the law says it is ok, then it is ok.  Like many have said in this column, there are fit loving and wanting parents, both heterosexual and homosexual.  Even in my disagreement with the lifestyle choice, I&#8217;d rather see a child given a loving supportive home by gay parents than an unfit home by heterosexual parents.  There are a lot of unfit and uncaring parents out there who treat their kids as a burden and bother.</p>
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		<title>By: Pat Cunningham</title>
		<link>http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/2008/07/15/are-gay-adoptions-unhealthy-for-the-kids/#comment-4084</link>
		<author>Pat Cunningham</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 21:06:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/2008/07/15/are-gay-adoptions-unhealthy-for-the-kids/#comment-4084</guid>
		<description>Swede: What did Jesus say about homosexuality? Not a word.  He did once mention Sodom and Gomorrah, but only regarding the principal sins of S&#38;G, which were inhospitality and arrogance. In the gospel of Matthew, Jesus says: “If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, shake the dust off your feet when you leave that home or town. I tell you the truth, it will be more bearable for Sodom and Gomorrah on the day of judgment than for that town.”

Moreover, the Bible's statements of what you call "abhorrence to homosexuality" are found mostly in the Old Testament  amid admonitions against eating shellfish, getting tatoos, wearing clothing made of more than one kind of fabric and other such terrible sins, which are prohibitions to which very few people pay any attention anymore.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Swede: What did Jesus say about homosexuality? Not a word.  He did once mention Sodom and Gomorrah, but only regarding the principal sins of S&amp;G, which were inhospitality and arrogance. In the gospel of Matthew, Jesus says: “If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, shake the dust off your feet when you leave that home or town. I tell you the truth, it will be more bearable for Sodom and Gomorrah on the day of judgment than for that town.”</p>
<p>Moreover, the Bible&#8217;s statements of what you call &#8220;abhorrence to homosexuality&#8221; are found mostly in the Old Testament  amid admonitions against eating shellfish, getting tatoos, wearing clothing made of more than one kind of fabric and other such terrible sins, which are prohibitions to which very few people pay any attention anymore.</p>
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		<title>By: Swede</title>
		<link>http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/2008/07/15/are-gay-adoptions-unhealthy-for-the-kids/#comment-4083</link>
		<author>Swede</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 20:56:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/2008/07/15/are-gay-adoptions-unhealthy-for-the-kids/#comment-4083</guid>
		<description>Bible scripture doesn't ban gay adoption, but it does state an abhorrence to homosexuality.  Look at what happened in Sodom and Gomorrah, when the homosexuals wanted to carry on with the Angels (who actually arrived, unbeknown to them, to deliver God's judgment).  So, I see what echo4charlie is talking about.  

I agree with Will, also.  Not just anybody can adopt, not just anybody can legally drive, and not just anyone can legally own a gun, or property, but, any two fertile people (be they decent, or unfit for parenting) can have children.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bible scripture doesn&#8217;t ban gay adoption, but it does state an abhorrence to homosexuality.  Look at what happened in Sodom and Gomorrah, when the homosexuals wanted to carry on with the Angels (who actually arrived, unbeknown to them, to deliver God&#8217;s judgment).  So, I see what echo4charlie is talking about.  </p>
<p>I agree with Will, also.  Not just anybody can adopt, not just anybody can legally drive, and not just anyone can legally own a gun, or property, but, any two fertile people (be they decent, or unfit for parenting) can have children.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike Carroll</title>
		<link>http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/2008/07/15/are-gay-adoptions-unhealthy-for-the-kids/#comment-4070</link>
		<author>Mike Carroll</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 17:37:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Pat-as I mentioned here before, my daughter backs Obama and my son backs McCain so one out of two success stories isn't bad.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pat-as I mentioned here before, my daughter backs Obama and my son backs McCain so one out of two success stories isn&#8217;t bad.</p>
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